Vanilla Dominatrix book review

Most of the Femdom, bottoming, or FLR books, I had a hard time applying to our own relationship.

One common theme among these books is that the wife has to do a lot of work. For example, take the time to read these books. What if she doesn’t want read these books? That was the case for Athena. She said, “B, you read these books. Then teach me how to dominate you.” Then she refused to do the things described in these books. Too taxing for her.

Vanilla Dominatrix by Giles English was different. It was the only book I found emphasizing on minimizing the overhead for the female partner. It was a short read. I was able to finish it in just a few hours. Then I had hope. I could successfully coach Athena Femdom in the least taxing way for her. Actually I had done many things described in the book, but less systematically. The efficiency of implementing Femdom could been much higher if I read this book earlier.

The book that helped me.

From the book, I started analyzing Athena. She was very open to new ideas. She was willing to try new things out as long as I prepared everything making it easy for her. If she liked it, then she would ask for it again later. Hypnosis, for example. She tried it, then it progressed to hypnotic chastity which I could not get out of later.
I realized that I could ask for kink anytime I want to. In the morning, lunch time, or late at night regardless of Athena’s energy level. She would pander me at least once. Then she would own it if she liked it. We didn’t need any lengthy discussions. Athena didn’t really care why we would enjoy something or not.

Go ahead, ask for Femdom!

When I first asked Athena to try erotic hypnosis, we talked for less than one minutes before I started teaching her about hypnosis. Our first discussion of FLR wasn’t more than a few minutes. Introducing hypnotic chastity was a short talk too.

It was not topping from the bottom either. I was like a chief presenting a menu for Athena to pick from. Athena didn’t care where I came up with the menu or how I prepared it. She was there to pick and enjoy, and that’s all she wanted to do. The grunt work would be left to me. Except I wasn’t a great chief and the menu usually consisted of only one small item.

I felt so liberated. There was a long list of things I wanted to try. All I really needed to do was just to ask. That was all there was to it. If Athena agreed, then it was up to me to make it so easy, so it would happen without Athena lifting a finger. If I could do that, then it would happen.
I summarized my findings from the book to Athena.

“I definitely want to continue. This has been fun, and I feel my life is easier. I think this book is more suitable for us. I mean, more suitable than many other books you have mentioned,” Athena said.
I said, “You know, this guy wrote another book for the dominatrix. A book for you to read on how to dominate he.”
“You may load into my iPhone.” Athena was interested.

This was the first time she asked to read any book Femdom.

She asked for Femdom.

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