Too weird among kinky people

I realized that Athena was a great service top. I could ask her for anything. As long as I was asking her, not telling her what to do, the D/s dynamic could be preserved. However, I really would like Athena to lead the activities rather than me prompting her all the time.

So I thought perhaps Athena would have fun hanging out with some kinky people. Maybe she could learn how to lead. I looked around on Fetlife. I found a weekly meeting for coffee only minutes away, so I brought it up to Athena. She liked coffee. An early evening in the coffee shop just to relax was something Athena really enjoyed, but had not done in years. She was feeling a bit guilty about it. I assured her that was ok, and the more selfish she became, the happier I would be. I would take care of the kids and tidy up the house that evening. I was already doing that every evening, so one evening a week without her help was no big deal. Athena started looking for an “I’m an evil hypnotist” shirt online, thought that would be fun to wear to these meetings.

It was no more than three or four meetings before Athena decided not to go anymore. She got the feeling that people were not comfortable around her, that our hypnotic activities were not the norm. It was too weird. Ropes, restraints, whips, canes, etc., they were the way to do BDSM. Hypno-fetish? Find your own people to hang out with. The meetings were nice enough. However, there was just this unspoken feeling that Athena was not “one of them.”

I was a bit dismayed by the findings. “If you feel isolated, you don’t need to go to these coffee meetings then,” I stood by Athena’s decision. “I know you really enjoy going for a coffee. Having some alone time to unwind. You can go to a different coffee place. Or go in another time. I’ll take care of things. You deserve it.”

“No, I want to be with you and the children. There will be plenty of time to do that when the children are more independent. That won’t be long now,” Athena replied.

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  1. Her Subject

    October 8, 2017 at 2:50pm

    Some people take pride of being weird but apparently only the right kind of weirdness. Outside of the normal weirdness is just too weird.

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  2. Declan Heyse

    October 8, 2017 at 2:50pm

    I've been a hypnofetishist for years and years, and I've noticed this, too. Non-hypno kinksters are either fascinated by what we do or very uncomfortable with it. Like they either think it's too much like adding another level of play acting to a role play — or it's much, much too "real" for them.

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