Kinky Easter Bunny Handles Her Whip

Kinky Easter Bunny Handles Her Whip

“Enough Easter pictures of friends and family with children, I’m tired of looking at them,” Athena said after looking through her Facebook account. She twisted Her Subject’s nipple, “Take the camera and come with me. You’ll do an Easter post today.” ← Dominatrix Holding a Scalpel BDSM/FLR Family Raising Independent Thinking Children...

Dominatrix Holding a Scalpel

Dominatrix Holding a Scalpel

Today we take a scalpel to the formula:   Dominatrix = Athena(i) and Her Subject(i)   We are going to carve out a piece from the formula and examine it closely. With the right tool in hand, we can cook up wild conjectures. In this case, we are not even sure if a scalpel is the right tool. But we had fun taking the picture. Isn’t it the whole purpose? To bring joy to life? First we take a look of the variable: i. It’s simple enough. It represents how interested we are in something. We should instinctively know it ourselves, right? After all, introspection is available to everybody. Listen to ourselves. Are we interested? Is it really something we want to do? Do we have the urge to do it? Does it bring us satisfaction? Yet it is elusive to us, for it is ever...

Kink Vending Machines Dispensed Freely

Kink Vending Machines Dispensed Freely

When one writes, one should always expect to be misunderstood. Scolded, Her Subject went sulking in the corner for a minute. “Want a dominant women, date one,” one woman tweeted. Good advice. If one is free to date. But it’s not so practical to men who have vowed “till death do us part.” She is not telling men to break their promises, is she? While standing in the corner, Her Subject observed his children doing all sorts of silly things. Eric cut holes in a cardboard box then wore it like a T-shirt. Then he walked around in it pretending to be a robot. He moved like one and talked like one. His sisters were thoroughly entertained they couldn’t stop giggling. Emma pretended to be a tiger hunting down Eric then tried to devour him, only to pretend to spit out...

New Torture

New Torture

“I bought you favorite snack,” Athena said to Her Subject. “A whole case of it.” Athena was puzzled why Her Subject winced. “What do you mean you can’t eat them?” Athena didn’t quite understand. “Oh, there is a post-hypnotic suggestion preventing you from eating them? That I forgot to cancel?” “I don’t remember that at all. Are you sure? If you say so.” “You are asking me to cancel it?” “I’m adding it to the repertoire to torture you with.” ← Simple Formula Kink Vending Machines Dispensed Freely...

Simple Formula

Simple Formula

Here is a simple formula. D/s = Athena(i) and Her Subject(i)   That is, the dominant / submissive dynamic is the result of Athena’s and Her Subject’s interest levels. When both interest levels are high, of chance of it happening is good. The formula can apply to any particular kink/fetish. Kink = Athena(i) and Her Subject(i)   We can also rewrite it as: Dominatrix = Athena(i) and Her Subject(i)   That’s it. Simple, right? But life has a way of complicating things. Does the formula work? Maybe. But we know for sure that it can foretell failure. In other words, if we are both interested, there is no guarantee that any particular kink will happen. But we know for sure it will fade away if one of us loses interest. Interest level cannot be quantified. We cannot...

Promise to Keep Him Chaste

Promise to Keep Him Chaste

“No, you are not getting an orgasm tonight,” Athena said. “You asked for it. You asked me to promise you to do as I pleased. You said that you will regret later, and no matter what, I cannot give in. I promised.” “I’m tired. I have a headache. I just want to go to sleep. You will finish your chores then go to sleep.” “Once I promised something, I don’t break it.” “No, no way.” “Ok, this weekend then, if I’m in the mood. Maybe. Now off to your chores. Then sleep.” ← A Domme Doesn’t Have Accidents Simple Formula...

A Domme Doesn’t Have Accidents

A Domme Doesn’t Have Accidents

The children were already soundly asleep. It was late in the night. Private time for us. Her Subject felt that Athena had been a bit careless with her power. Nothing major, but perhaps needed to hear how Her Subject was concerned. “Earlier today, you accidentally triggered the Jedi Mind Trick during lunch. I’m sure you didn’t mean it, and like everybody else, didn’t notice. But it was effective. We probably shouldn’t do that kind of things in public, especially in front of children. I just want you to be more careful,” Her Subject said. “I was fully aware what was going on,” was Athena’s reply. *** The whole family went to the early morning show to see the latest Star Wars movie: Rogue One. It was a perfect sunny day to take a stroll to the restaurant afterward...

A Child’s Wisdom

A Child’s Wisdom

What do they teach in kindergarten nowadays? When we were at that age, Apple Computer did not exist. TV had three channels. Disco was all the rage. The other day, our kindergartener Emma wrote series of instructions navigating a mouse through a maze to get his cheese on the computer. “We learned that in school.” Trying to solve a piece of puzzle in life, Emma had this to say, “Daddy, why does mommy always tell you what to do and you always do what she says?” “No, don’t tell me. Oh, I know. Because you love each other.” Emma showed satisfaction after solving the puzzle. We work long and hard to afford their tuition. Perhaps it’s paying off. While we were driving, Emma saw neighbor’s dogs and cats wondering around. She said, “If I see a stray boy, can...

How to Turn Her Into a Dominatrix

How to Turn Her Into a Dominatrix

Many men wondered if there are levers to pull to turn her into a dominatrix. A simple flip of a switch and voila, the dominatrix of your dream. Chances are, there are switches and levers. But they are not obvious, visible, or intuitive. Don’t bet on them to be simple either. And that’s the rub, isn’t it? For a naturally dominant woman, it won’t work that way. She doesn’t like her lever pulled or her switch flipped at the whim of another person. If anything, she wants to be the one pulling the levers. That’s what makes her dominant. For a naturally submissive woman, the lever may be missing. There is no amount of effort can get her into any resemblance of a dominatrix. Forcing her out of her natural self may only drive her mad, if not away. Nevertheless, there is...

Wife Whipping Husband

Wife Whipping Husband

We felt perhaps it was time to try the single tail in the bedroom. The shape of the whip is tapered. The diameter decreases smoothly from the handle to just a few sawing threads at the cracker end. As the diameter decreases the energy travels down the whip gets more and more concentrated. The whip moving speed accelerates as well. When the whip cracks, the cracker can travel exceeding the speed of a bullet. The loud pop is the sonic boom when the cracker breaks the sound barrier. The power and the danger thrilled Her Subject. To start, Athena tried to make a few loud cracks without hitting anything. Only a few successes. As short as the 4-foot whip was, it was hitting the wall, the ceiling, the ceiling fan, or other pieces of furniture in the room. A few time she...

The Jedi Mind Trick

The Jedi Mind Trick

“The Jedi Mind Trick seems interesting,” Her Subject said while reading topics on erotic hypnosis. “Oh yeah? What does it do?” Athena showed interest. “Just like in the movies. You do your trigger and it gives me short term amnesia. I do not remembering you doing it. Then I think whatever you said is my own idea.” “You do whatever I say anyway. I don’t see why we need a special hand signal. It’s kind of redundant. But if it pleases you let’s go ahead and install it,” Athena said. “And if I have no instruction for you, you’ll just be memoryless and dazed for a few minutes.” Little did she know how addictive power is. Any power. Athena will never cancel this power. * * * This post was one of the most difficult to write. First, Her Subject took on...

Smuggling Fun

Smuggling Fun

Desire smuggling? Desire Smuggling: Hiding what you really want from yourself and/or a loved one, then, finding cover strategies to get (at least pieces of) what you want. Her Subject came to something new today. Upon closer examination, he realized that he had been doing this all along. But not because of fear. Because of the fun. Some emotion smuggling can be toxic? Alcohol is toxic. Isn’t that the whole point? Consider this. Her Subject says to Athena, “Can you keep me chaste for the week?” He might as well have said this to Athena, “I’m going to keep myself chaste for the week. So I’ll do nothing that will bring me to orgasm this week.” Then he goes on his own business and marks his own calendar with no further involvement from Athena. What’s the fun in...